Consider this... if we ask someone to do something for his or her well being, and they don't do it, is it:
a. the person doesn't listen to you; or
b. your request was actually selfish or ridiculous in the first place; or
c. it's actually not in anyone's interest?
Think about this... if a motorcycle cuts you off harshly on the road, what would you think?
a. that guys must be in a hurry; or
b. (^$*&^*@*@^ motorcyclist!!!; or
c. it's the way it has always been, what can you do about it?
No score table to refer to, just see what you actually answer :)