They say it's one of the biggest steps in the process of human life. A lot of friends ask the same old routine questions like "Are you sure?" or "Are you nervous?"; the answer is 1) yes I'm sure and 2)not yet; ask me again on the wedding day.
My insecurity complex is yelling "what if you can't make her happy?" but Saskia assures me that I do. Good times are easy, bad times are hard, but we both can get through them without much fuss, apparently. Well, hopefully so in future days also.
Some friends have asked on whether they could get us something as a wedding present, so in no particular order, we have made a wedding gift wish list. I have no idea why on earth anyone would want to buy us anything, but here's the list just in case:
- Refridgerator 200 liter
- Microwave
- Carpet
- Sofa (2 or 3 seater)
- Side Table
- Bed Cover King Size (180 x 200 cm)
- Standing Lamp
- Spoon & fork set
- Small Spoon & Fork set
- Home computer (preferably a Mac)
Phew! The wedding gift list is a very... erm, Western tradition, but it should be effective, rather than people with the best intentions all giving us rice cookers (thus ending up with 8 or 9 of them). But the gift list is the least of my concerns... I'm just worried that the wedding reception on Sunday does not go to plan... ah but to hell with it. Let it be; the most important thing is that I am getting married!
Pray for us ya :) We surely hope for the best!
dearest you!
ReplyDeletecongratulations. hope things go well, not only for Sunday, but the days after. God bless every second of your life together.
and about the list, hmm, it's effective indeed!
thank you! hope you can come.... i suppose you will be at JakJazz right? come visit Gedung Serbaguna Senayan at 7 PM on Nov 25th.... :)
ReplyDeleteyes, the list is effective, apparently...