Wednesday, November 9, 2005

The Paradox Of Hedonism

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia.

The paradox of hedonism was first explicitly noted by the philosopher Henry Sidgwick in The Methods of Ethics.

More than a few common proverbs capture the idea that when one pursues happiness itself, one is miserable; but, when one pursues something else (e.g. a challenging career, a project important to humanity, a code of ethics, a religious commitment), one achieves happiness. Among others thinkers, John Stuart Mill, a Utilitarian philosopher, noted this in his autobiography:

"But I now thought that this end [one's happiness] was only to be attained by not making it the direct end. Those only are happy (I thought) who have their minds fixed on some object other than their own happiness[....] Aiming thus at something else, they find happiness along the way[....] Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so." (p. 94)

Happiness is often naively equated with pleasure, though sometimes the identification of the two concepts has been argued as part of a greater philosophical position called hedonism.

If, whether for good or bad reasons, one does equate happiness with pleasure, then the paradox of hedonism arises. When one aims solely towards pleasure itself, one's aim is frustrated. Sidgwick comments on such frustration after a discussion of self-love in the above-mentioned work:

"I should not, however, infer from this that the pursuit of pleasure is necessarily self-defeating and futile; but merely that the principle of Egoistic Hedonism, when applied with a due knowledge of the laws of human nature, is practically self-limiting; i.e., that a rational method of attaining the end at which it aims requires that we should to some extent put it out of sight and not directly aim at it." (p. 3)

Aristotle might possibly have also noted the paradoxical side of pursuing pleasure, though not, at any rate, as clearly as Sidgwick. Human beings are actors whose endeavors bring about consequences, and among these are pleasure. Aristotle then argues as follows:

"How, then, is it that no one is continuously pleased? Is it that we grow weary? Certainly all human things are incapable of continuous activity. Therefore pleasure also is not continuous; for it accompanies activity." (p. 1099)

Here Aristotle might be interpreted as noting how eventually the spirit is willing [to pursue pleasure], but the flesh is weak [in obtaining pleasure]. Perhaps this is at the root of what causes the paradox to arise. Sooner or later, finite beings will be unable to acquire and expend the resources necessary to maintain their sole goal of pleasure; thus, they find themselves in the company of misery.

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I TOTALLY THOUGHT THAT TODAY WAS WEDNESDAY!

Tuesday, November 8, 2005

A Fresh Look

It came as a whim, but the whim came as a cause, of what has been running in my head for a while. A new perspective needs new colors, too...
So here it is. I will be doing a bit of reworking here and there over the weeks, but.... this is the new look. Hopefully fresh enough for all of us.
Why "Positivity" as the new title?
To remind myself... always.

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aku ingin kamu tahu:
aku menyayangimu, melebihi logika, melebihi apa yang seharusnya aku rasa dan pikirkan. walaupun tidak sebanyak dahulu, sebuah detik dalam sehari akan aku luangkan untuk kamu, dan kenangan.

aku harap pencarianmu telah berakhir, dan aku harap tempat yang telah kau capai kini memberikan keamanan, kenyamanan dan balutan kepercayaan yang selama ini kamu cari-cari sampai meruntuhkan kepekaan dan logika.

aku juga tahu, kamu tidak peduli tulisan ini - bahkan, media ini bertentangan dengan prinsip kamu sebelumnya. tapi, paling tidak salah satu dari kita harus dapat mengungkapkan hal-hal yang tak pernah terungkap.

aku akan memasukkan kamu ke dalam sebuah kotak, yang berisi pelajaran-pelajaran terdahulu; kamu adalah ilmu bagi hidupku, itulah hikmah keberadaanmu bagiku. hanya saja,... tak akan lebih dari itu, takkan lagi.

mari kita ganti topik pembicaraan...

Thursday, November 3, 2005

Idul Fitri

Today is Idul Fitri, a yearly celebration in the Muslim religion, of the so-called victory over lust, sin and other human drives after a 30-day fast. Technically you're supposed to not eat and drink from dawn to dusk, but a good fast would be avoiding other human drives like sexual drives, bitching, cursing and everything else that's fun.
As usual, after the Ied prayer in the morning, we get together with the rest of the extended family, and fill our stomaches to the limit with anything on the table. There are some traditional dishes, but usually it varies from region to region anyway. The most important thing is to gather with family, and to forgive each other for whatever wrongdoings or sins that happened the year past.

Let's take a look at what I mentioned last year on this event. Things never really do change, eh?

Today, I am trying to swallow my pride, and forgive someone I'm not quite ready to forgive yet.
So help me God.

Tuesday, November 1, 2005

A Little Bit Of Burt Bacarach

I just don't know what to do with myself
Don't know just what to do with myself
I'm so used to doing everything with you
Planning everything for two
And now that we're through

I just don't know what to do with my time
I'm so lonesome for you it's a crime
Going to a movie only makes me sad
Parties make me feel as bad
When I'm not with you
I just don't know what to do
Like a summer rose needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet love to ease all the pain

[Burt Bacarach, 1962]

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PIRING-PIRING KEPARAT!!